Managing the Child/Parent Relationship as Mom and Dad Age

Balancing the autonomy and safety of aging parents while respecting their independence is a delicate tightrope to walk for adult children. The desire of older adults to live fully, without assumptions about their capabilities diminishing due to age-related declines, adds complexity to the equation. Parents value their independence but may be open to support from their adult children without compromising their autonomy.

In this intricate dance of familial roles and responsibilities, external support from organizations like Jewish Pavilion Senior Services and the Orlando Senior Help Desk can provide invaluable assistance. These resources offer guidance and practical assistance tailored to the unique needs of seniors and their families, helping to navigate challenging conversations and decisions.

Differentiating between genuine health risks and differences in opinion is crucial. Matters such as safe driving may necessitate involvement from neutral third parties, like the parent’s physician, to facilitate discussions and implement necessary changes. Sensitivity towards parents’ desire for independence, while reassuring them of your commitment to safeguarding personal boundaries and social connections, fosters mutual understanding and respect.

While most seniors face major adjustments when transitioning to an elder-care community, Jewish seniors face additional challenges. Not only do they lose their homes, and many of their friends, but they also lose ties to their cultural heritage. This is where Jewish Pavilion Senior Services (JPSS), a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, steps in. JPSS serves as a resource that provides room visits, festive holiday celebrations, and more to 450 Jewish residents in 50 facilities for seniors. JPSS promotes inclusion, and thousands of seniors of all faiths are welcomed into its programs. Visit JewishPavilion.org to learn more. The Orlando Senior Help Desk (at 407-678-9363 and OrlandoSeniorHelpDesk.org) helps thousands of callers navigate their way through the daunting senior maze, alleviating caregiver stress while giving advice on all types of elder issues.